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Please contribute towards a free resource to support survivors of rape

I recently met an amazing woman, Nina Burrowes, a woman with eye-watering research and psychology credentials and a passion for helping survivors of violence.

She is fundraising to create a free e-book that will support women who have experienced rape.  The e-book will illustrate the courage and vulnerability of women survivors of rape she interviewed while conducting research on behalf of the Portsmouth Abuse and Rape Counselling Service.

Women’s services are grossly underfunded and when survivors reach out for help, some can have to wait up to one year before receiving support due to lack of human and financial resources.  That’s why this e-book is so important.  Women will have instant access to shared experiences of survival, giving them support in the interim.

For £10 you will be a named contributor in the book.

The donation page:
The reason she is doing the research:
The research report the e-book will be based on:

 

The Unspeakable Crime: Rape – a reflection on women’s liberation

Just finished watching The Unspeakable Crime: Rape on BBC1. I can’t tell you how angry it made me feel. It really hit home just how false the idea of women’s liberation is. If women truly were liberated, they’d be able to go where they want, do what they want and wear what they want without fear of retribution or violence. And when they experienced violence, they’d be able to report it to the police without fearing they would not be believed, would be blamed for their actions or somehow be held to account for the violence against them. Sadly this is not the case.

The Unspeakable Crime: Rape BBC1 4 June 2235 broadcast

According to statistics issued by the Ministry of Justice, the Home Office and the Office for National Statistics in January this year almost 100,000 women are raped each year; just 6% of women who report their perpetrators to the police will see their perpetrators get a conviction court. The reasons women do not report are many and complex. But myths around what rape is, what victims look like and assumptions around typical victim behaviour definitely come into play. A victim can be a sex worker, a woman who is drunk, a daughter, a sister, a wife and mother. Perpetrators can be colleagues, husbands, boyfriends, ex-partners, friends and family members. Contrary to popular belief a woman or girl is far more likely to be assaulted by a man she knows than a man she doesn’t.

Perhaps one of the most harmful myths is the prevalence of false reports of rape. A report released in March this year by the crown prosecution service, that followed allegations of rape over a 17 month period between 2011 and 2012, found there were 5,651 prosecutions for rape and just 35 prosecutions for making a false allegation of rape over the same period (equivalent to less than 1 per cent if you combine the numbers).  There are false reports of each and every type of crime but the general assumption that there are higher numbers of false reports of rape is exceptionally harmful. It makes survivors of sexual assault fear they will not be believed, deterring them from reporting the violence they have experienced. This, in turn, provides a safety net for the men who perpetrate sexual violence against women: where is the incentive to stop hurting women if there are no legal or other consequences for doing so?

So how do we overcome the problem? We need to take a look at how society, politicians, the judicial process etc, and that means each and everyone of us, view rape and sexual assault. We need to challenge what “real rape” is and our views on victim-survivors and their behaviour. We need to accept that victim-survivors are not responsible for the violence against them, that rape and sexual assault is carried out by men who intentionally set out to harm women, deliberately targeting women when they are vulnerable, trusting or not able to say no. Most importantly we need rape not to be an unspeakable crime. We need to be brave, confront the problem openly and take away the taboo.

Article sources:

If you would like to watch the documentary it is on BBC iplayer for he next 5 days:

http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/bigscreen/tv/episode/b02qvpdq/The_Unspeakable_Crime_Rape 

For more information about rape myths visit: http://www.rapecrisis.org.uk/mythsampfacts2.php

Crown prosecution service report: http://www.cps.gov.uk/publications/research/perverting_course_of_justice_march_2013.pdf

Ministry of Justice, the Home Office and the Office for National Statistics research: http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/100000-assaults-1000-rapists-sentenced-shockingly-low-conviction-rates-revealed-8446058.html

Home office investing £10.5m in “rape support centres”

I was really, really pleased that the mumsnet survey, run in connection with the women’s organisation Rape Crisis, secured lots of media attention.

It has long been understood in the women’s sector that women, generally, do not report incidents of rape and sexual assault to the police for a variety of reasons. This means there are many more instances of sexual violence than police statistics show and this research finally provides the much needed evidence to support this. In short this demonstrates there is a need for investment in services that help women overcome an experience of sexual violence.

I noticed the article in Metro quotes a home office spokesperson stating that the Government is to spend £10.5million to provide “rape support centres” over the next three years. While this sounds like a good investment my fear is that these are for Sexual Assault Referral Centres (SARC’s) alone, rather than to provide long term specialist care for women who have experienced sexual violence. Continue reading

Guest Blog: Every town and city needs a SARC

I recently watched a strong independent 40 something young woman fall apart after she had been raped by a friend. She called me because I was someone she thought could talk to. She didn’t know who else to ring. She knew because of the campaign that there was a SARC (Sexual Assault Referral Centre) in a neighboring town, but as she had been in bed for a few days while the effects of a suspected date rape drug wore off, she thought it was too late for forensic tests, and also didn’t want to travel far. Continue reading

Who to blame?

Following on from my previous post (about Rape Crisis Scotland) I’ve had a few conversations with people recently about rape where alcohol is involved.  It’s a grey area and I thought I’d write a snippet about it.

One of the themes that comes up again and again is victim blaming.  This is where a person who has been assaulted is held accountable in one way or another for the violence that was perpetrated against them. In the discussions I’ve had recently some people believe that if a woman is drunk when she gets raped it is her fault somehow. Continue reading